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Re: Uh-Oh

Posted: Wed Jun 28, 2017 10:56 pm
by tr8theta
LOL - thank you for helping me put things in proper perspective..I will strive to stay on the right shack...I mean track.

Re: Uh-Oh

Posted: Thu Jun 29, 2017 1:26 am
by Courageous
Sneak a copy of The Shack in their mailbox....or, since that is basically illegal, wrap it and leave it on their porch. Just the mere curiosity of it showing up may prompt them to read it lol.

Re: Uh-Oh

Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2017 7:37 pm
by tr8theta
Hmmm that's certainly an idea to consider. My initial reaction to this idea is hesitancy butI I know it's because I'm still holding on to some resentment (I guess) or I'd run right over and do it. We'll see.

Re: Uh-Oh

Posted: Wed Aug 30, 2017 7:55 pm
by Arus
Hi Tom. I wanted to respond to what you posted on the "this or that" thread, but not there.

I totally agree with how you feel about your soon-to-be grandchild. It does not sound like a healthy relationship, and, ultimately, the child's best interests are what counts. Prayers coming your way!!

Re: Uh-Oh

Posted: Thu Aug 31, 2017 1:09 pm
by tr8theta
Thank you. You can always e-mail me privately at;
transfersbytr@aol.com

Re: Uh-Oh

Posted: Sun Sep 03, 2017 6:58 pm
by Cathy
How are you doing, Tom? I hope you're having a good weekend.

Re: Uh-Oh

Posted: Mon Sep 04, 2017 3:57 pm
by tr8theta
well it WAS okay until just minutes ago when my son and pregnant girlfriend started arguing. After all the many times they have fought you would think that she would have LEARNED by now that the best thing to do when he is upset (bugging out) is to shut up and walk away and leave him alone...but NO...she keeps at it and at it and at...until he really flips out. They are both bi-polar! This is when I really have to be SHACK-like.
If I went in and said "anything" it would get worse and then I become the target...so I don't. I just walk away...so here I am.
Tom

Re: Uh-Oh

Posted: Mon Sep 04, 2017 4:01 pm
by Cathy
That sounds frustrating for you! I wish you could have more peace.

Re: Uh-Oh

Posted: Mon Sep 04, 2017 6:01 pm
by Arus
That does indeed sound terribly frustrating!!

Re: Uh-Oh

Posted: Mon Sep 04, 2017 6:47 pm
by Doggie
Tom, the unfortunate truth may be that she likes the feeling of power she gets setting him off.