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Re: The litter box

Post by Arus » Sat Nov 11, 2017 4:07 pm

He was Coll, lol.

At least they all made it Cathy :)
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Re: The litter box

Post by Cathy » Sat Nov 11, 2017 9:30 pm

Yes, it's great. :)

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Re: The litter box

Post by Cathy » Sun Nov 19, 2017 4:19 am

Happy Birthday, Peni!! I hope you have a lovely day. Are you doing anything special?

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Re: The litter box

Post by Arus » Sun Nov 19, 2017 8:08 pm

Thank you Cathy! I had a lovely day, with pressies, flowers and even got taken out for dinner, so I am a happy girl!
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Re: The litter box

Post by Cathy » Mon Nov 20, 2017 2:13 am

I'm glad you had such a happy birthday, Peni! :)

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Re: The litter box

Post by Arus » Mon Nov 20, 2017 4:18 pm

Thank you :)
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Re: The litter box

Post by Doggie » Tue Nov 21, 2017 1:09 pm

Happy belated birthday.
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Re: The litter box

Post by tr8theta » Wed Nov 22, 2017 7:50 pm

Just came by to wish you a happy Thanksgiving...even if you don't celebrate it where you are...so what...have a Happy day anyway! Tom
Now I hope you don't mind my venting:

My son, Jeff and his girlfriend, Shelby had a seemingly healthy baby boy "Lukas"
At present time they are living with us here at home...it is what it is.
Please don't express any congrats and no lectures either. In all honesty I am NOT pleased about it ONLY BECAUSE of the circumstances underlying. I don't mean to sound "mean" but I'm just being honest and this is where I can be honest...with you guys...er, I mean gals LOL. My wife, however is the "happy" grandma!
One good thing is that my son has a great job and is making mad money and using it well.
He recently got arrested for "simple assault" and due to his prior record is wearing an ankle bracelet to monitor his whereaboute...but he is allowed to go to work and back.
Shelby so far is being a good mom.
My fear (and the imminent reality of it) is that they will fight and break up again and she'll return to her apartment where her mom lives...
The fact that they are together "yet again" is itself irrational.
Jeff has serious anger issues and gets physical. He's already punched me twice and has hit Shelby quite a few times ...yet she keeps returning to him.
I'm just not into babies...and I do not feel any closeness to Lukas. I must have my own psychological issues.
I feel sorry for the little guy being born into a bi-polar parental sistuation.
Hope you're not mad at me for not visiting more often and then here I am and I'm using my visit to vent.

Be well!

Tom

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Re: The litter box

Post by Cathy » Thu Nov 23, 2017 4:46 am

Hi Tom. It's good to see you. Happy Thanksgiving to you too. I can understand your struggles with your son and the new baby. I hope you will grow to love the baby over time but some things take time. I'm sorry your son recently got arrested for "simple assault" and he has hit you and Shelby. It is a sad situation. I'm glad Shelby is being a good mom so far. May God keep you all safe and bring healing and wholeness to the situation.

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Re: The litter box

Post by tr8theta » Thu Nov 23, 2017 6:35 pm

Thank you Cathy

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